Apparently this is happening to people, and I need to figure out how to make it happen to moi. Happily I already have a person in mind — and he knows who he is! The other day I was watching a pornographic — though artful — performance work online and throughout the whole video the sex was so intense that the guy on bottom was actually crying. Like literally crying — before the orgasm set in.
If that line could have spewed out of your mouth or raced through your mind during a sexual escapade or two, I can guess what next thought was: WTF? If your partner seems confused, "being honest is the best policy," says Sarah Nasserzadeh, Ph. Yep, that means opening up about what you think triggered those tears—like one of the reasons below. That last cocktail might have given you the liquid courage to ask a crush to , but you can also curse it for lowering the inhibitions that typically keep your emotions close to your chest, Nasserzadeh says.
Updated: Jul Note: This is an excerpt of our new book, which I wrote with my co-author Ingunn Tennbakk. First of all, a crying woman is a beautiful thing. Crying releases deep emotions, washes the body clean of all pain, and leaves her open to receive love and sexual bliss. When she cries, she opens her heart, softens her body, and releases pain which may have been held in for years.